San Diego · Trauma & Attachment · Body-Oriented Therapy

Healing the patterns beneath the pain

Licensed psychotherapist in San Diego helping you understand and heal the patterns underneath the pain through experiential, body-oriented therapy.

I help you understand the patterns your body has been holding

Hi, I’m Maya Heffernan, a licensed marriage and family therapist in San Diego, California. I help individuals, couples, and families work through patterns often shaped by attachment experiences, trauma, identity adaptation, and nervous system responses that continue to live on — not only in emotions and thoughts, but also in the body, as tension, shutdown, fatigue, anxiety, or emotional reactivity.

I work in modalities designed for healing attachment patterns through mind–body connection and integration.

My work is relational, non-pathologizing, somatically informed, and deeply attuned to moment-to-moment experience.

As the only PBSP-certified (Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor) therapist on the West Coast, I help clients slow down enough to notice what is happening not only emotionally and cognitively, but also somatically. This experiential process allows us to work directly with the patterns themselves, rather than only talking about them.

I help clients track and understand the emotional and attachment-based patterns that are carried in the nervous system and expressed through body cues, symptoms, and relational dynamics. Together, we work to transform these patterns at their source so that change is not only understood, but deeply felt and integrated.

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If This Feels Familiar…

You may have spent years trying to understand yourself, yet still find certain patterns repeating in your relationships, your inner dialogue, or the way you move through the world. Perhaps you’ve become skilled at carrying a great deal on your own while longing for a deeper sense of connection, clarity, or ease. Therapy offers a space to gently explore what has shaped these patterns and begin creating new ways of relating to yourself and the people you love.

Three ways we can work together

Individual Therapy

You have learned how to keep going, even when something inside still feels stuck. You may understand your patterns intellectually, yet find yourself repeating them in relationships, carrying relentless self-criticism, or feeling disconnected from yourself. Together, we’ll explore the deeper emotional and nervous system patterns that shape your experience, so therapy becomes more than insight — it becomes lasting change from the inside out.

Relationship Therapy

Relationships can become places where old attachment patterns quietly replay themselves, leaving partners and families feeling disconnected, misunderstood, or caught in painful cycles. Rather than focusing only on conflict, we explore what each person is protecting, longing for, and carrying beneath the surface — creating new experiences of safety, connection, and trust.

Group Therapy

Healing happens in relationship. Group therapy offers a unique opportunity to experience yourself with others in a space built on curiosity, compassion, and emotional safety. As familiar patterns emerge in real time, they can be seen, understood, and transformed through authentic connection and shared experience.
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Whether you’re seeking support as an individual, with a partner or family, or in a group setting, therapy offers a space to understand the patterns shaping your experience and create lasting change through deeper connection with yourself and others.
Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions before you begin

What kinds of concerns do you help with?
I work with individuals, couples, families, and groups navigating relationship challenges, attachment wounds, trauma, grief, anxiety, life transitions, parenting, and the lasting effects of difficult early experiences. Many clients come to therapy because they recognize recurring patterns in their lives and are ready to understand and change them at a deeper level.
My work is grounded in the belief that lasting change happens through relationship, not simply through insight. In addition to traditional talk therapy, I integrate body-oriented approaches that help clients understand how past experiences continue to shape emotions, relationships, and the nervous system. As the only certified Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor (PBSP) therapist on the West Coast, I offer a specialized approach designed to heal attachment patterns and create meaningful, lasting transformation.
Therapy can be a meaningful next step if you’ve found yourself repeating the same patterns, feeling disconnected from yourself or others, or carrying emotional experiences that still influence your life today. You don’t need to have everything figured out before you begin. Curiosity, openness, and a willingness to explore are enough to get started.
Yes. I work with couples and families who want to better understand the patterns shaping their relationships and build greater trust, connection, and emotional safety. Together, we explore what lies beneath conflict so new ways of relating can emerge.
I offer in-person sessions at my office in Old Town San Diego. Although I can technically provide telehealth, the way I work is better suited for in-person sessions.

Each therapy session lasts 50 minutes.  Longer sessions can be arranged.

The first step is scheduling a consultation. It’s an opportunity for us to talk about what brings you to therapy, answer any questions you may have, and explore whether working together feels like the right fit.
Not at all. Some clients are beginning therapy for the first time, while others have spent years in therapy and are looking for a different approach. Many come to my practice because they are seeking something deeper than symptom management or insight alone, and want to better understand the patterns shaping their relationships, emotions, and lived experience.

My rate for individual therapy is $190 per 50 minute session. My rate for couples therapy is $200 per 50 minute session, and family therapy is $215 per session. Extended sessions can be arranged. Payment can be made by cash, check or credit card. 

Yes, I do offer a sliding scale. I have a limited number of sliding-scale spots available. Please contact me for more information.

No, I don’t accept insurance. Many plans allow for out of network providers and will reimburse you. I can provide receipts for that purpose. 

Using health insurance can make therapy more accessible, and for many people it’s a helpful option. It’s also important to understand how it works so you can make the choice that feels right for you.​ Most insurance plans require a mental health diagnosis to cover therapy. This diagnosis becomes part of your medical record and is shared with your insurance company for billing. While your information is still protected under privacy laws like HIPAA, it is not as fully private as out-of-pocket therapy.

In some cases, mental health history may be considered when applying for life or disability insurance. Because of this, some clients choose to pay privately for greater privacy, flexibility, and freedom from a required diagnosis. Ultimately, there’s no one-size-fits-all approach—just the option that best supports you.

You have the right to receive a “Good Faith Estimate” explaining how much your medical and mental health care will cost.

Under the law, health care providers need to give patients who don’t have insurance or who are not using insurance an estimate of the expected charges for medical services, including psychotherapy services.  You have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate for the total expected cost of any non-emergency healthcare services, including psychotherapy services. You can ask your health care provider, and any other provider you choose, for a Good Faith Estimate before you schedule a service. If you receive a bill that is at least $400 more than your Good Faith Estimate, you can dispute the bill. Make sure to save a copy or picture of your Good Faith Estimate. For questions or more information about your right to a Good Faith Estimate, visit www.cms.gov/nosurprises or call (800) 985-3059.

My office is located in the Old Town area of San Diego at 3990 Old Town Ave, Suite B100, San Diego, CA 92110

I am a California-licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, license #111639.  I  am licensed in the state of California to provide in-person and Telehealth therapy.